He gets hangry….. is he Betty white or Danny deVito? Lol

YouTube comments are notorious for stuff like that though. Comments on actual blogs seem to be more thought out. But YouTube is much more stream of conciousness commenting. Usually our YouTube comments are great, but of course that’s where they are a lot more random people.

wow I’m surprised… I didn’t know people were so (strangely) meticulous about the videos… I mean, why should they even bother? It’s none of their business. You are right, even if you wore the pants, so what? It would be your way of making things work in a relationship; it’s something personal. But I don’t really think you seem the one who is dominant… Even without knowing you very well and judging only from the comics, you can tell that there were sooo many situations in which you proved otherwise ^^ (and as far as I remember, there is also a video where Hugh raises his voice to remind you: “You ate my kit kats!” hahaha). So.. yeah…I guess it’s easy to just sit in front of the computer and give “precious” advice… But why the heck do people concentrate on such things? Come on, watch the video, enjoy the CONTENT and the rabbit watering can 😀 it seems that some people don’t have any idea what to do with their lives so they feel entitled to instruct others instead. Meh… Anyway, so as not to end this comment in such a bleak way 😉 BIG HUGS for the both of you and 화이팅! 😀

I have a feeling the people who say that kind of thing are sexist men. If I did “wear the pants” and was the dominant one in the relationship so what??? If we are happy with the dynamic with the relationship, what does it matter? So yeah it’s just a comment we’ve occasionally seen from random people who stumble across a video.

Another comment we’ve got from actual viewers, and this is not as bad but still hurtful, is that I talk too much and cut Hugh off, especially in earlier videos. What actually would happen is that Hugh was very shy on camera back then so would ask me to talk more. If he did say something on camera he felt he stumbled through his words too much and often I would just summarize his point after he said it. He is the one that edited, so he’d cut himself out completely and leave what I said, making it look like I just cut him off and that I didn’t let him talk. Some people tried to chastise me and told me to let him talk and it was quite upsetting and frustrating for me. Even though they meant well.. they didn’t understand the situation. These days I force him to say more… otherwise he just won’t and I force him to leave himself in when editing otherwise he’ll just cut himself out. But even then, people have to understand that videos in English- I will always be saying more because it’s my native language. And videos in Korean, Hugh will be the dominant one.