Intercultural Life

Author: Nic (Page 226 of 232)

Vanuatu and Koreans

 

We got back from our honeymoon last Sunday. We went to Vanuatu for about five days. As well as the traditional Vanuatu people there are also many Australians, New Zealanders, French and Chinese there. Many many Chinese owned shops. That’s not that unusual as Chinese people are spread all around the world. Koreans, less so. We were curious though. Are there any Koreans in Vanuatu?

Port Vila, where we stayed, is the capital of Vanuatu and it’s pretty small! The population is about 40 thousand. We started realising that many of the cars on the road were Korean. Not just Korean brand but second hand cars imported from Korea. Many still had the original hangul on them saying this mini bus was for children or old people. Someone must be importing Korean cars, surely they would be a Korean person?

Two days passed and no sign of any Koreans until one time we were being driven back to our resort and up on a hill, near a Thai restaurant, I saw a sign that said ‘Korean Restaurant’. Surely Koreans run that! I could see the sign but I couldn’t see exactly where the restaurant was. Every time we were driven on that road I looked for the sign but I couldn’t be sure if there was actually a restaurant there. There were buildings there but were they just a hotel? Maybe there was one that had shut down and the sign was old.

On our last afternoon there (we were flying out the next day) we found ourselves with not much to do. We’d spent the morning snorkeling and jet boat riding and we’d caught a bus instead of being driven in the resort van, so we had no driver waiting for us. We thought- let’s have an adventure! This was our last chance to find out if there really was a Korean restaurant there.

We knew the sign we saw for the Korean restaurant was quite far from the centre of town and we only had a vague idea of the direction it was in. We started in that direction anyway. We stopped and asked people on the way but they didn’t seem to know where it was- they weren’t even sure of the Thai restaurant we knew was near it. We walked for over an hour and guessed which streets to turn in to. I started giving up hope of finding it but my husband was adamant that we were going the right way. Normally I would not trust him as he has a terrible sense of direction but this time I didn’t argue. Maybe being a Korean his nose was leading him towards Korean food? haha.

Finally we saw the sign for the Thai restaurant and just a bit further along was the sign for the Korean restaurant. We couldn’t see the restaurant though, just a large parking area. We asked some people who were sitting around if there was a Korean restaurant here and they pointed us to the large newer looking building at the back of the parking area. Lots of people seemed to be going through a door. Balloons were everywhere. What was this?

We stepped inside and I saw a man I knew must be Korean. He was greeting everyone that was entering this large room where it looked like a party was being held. I asked if he was Korean and I quickly said “My husband is Korean” and pushed my husband forward. They spoke in Korean and soon we were ushered into the room and welcomed.

It turns out this was the celebration of the Korean restaurant opening (it opened officially the next day). There was food and entertainment and real Koreans! After trudging up stupid hills for the past hour it was amazing to walk into something like this. Apparently there was once a Korean restaurant here that had shut down but this man was reopening it.

The owner was really happy to have us unexpectedly arrive because apparently a honeymoon couple visiting for the opening brings good luck. That made me feel better about us gorging ourselves on all the free food!

There was a mix of people at the party but the Korean people there soon realised my husband was Korean (though some thought he might have been Japanese at first). There are only about 50 Koreans in Vanuatu so a new Korean face is a novelty. Most of the Korean men were much older than my husband but were so keen to talk to him. He collected several business cards.

The entertainment was traditional islander dances performed by dance troops that were really great. There was food in abundance- including a roast pig. It was amazing that we had stumbled across this just at the right time.

One man in particular was very keen to talk to my husband. We were introduced to his family and invited to his home. It turns out he is one of the people importing Korean cars to Vanuatu! He’d come here and built up his business which was so successful he had recently built a large house. They have two young daughters who speak both English and Korean but also that night two other young Korean girls were staying so we were confronted with four very loud bilingual children! I went swimming with them while my husband retreated to the kitchen to talk with the father.

We had a really nice time with this family and were invited to stay with them next time we come back to Vanuatu. I have no idea how we managed to arrive at exactly the right time for the celebrations and then meet such lovely welcoming people. I would have given up half way but my husband insisted we were walking up the right hill. I’m guessing it really was his nose leading him towards the smell of food. Or maybe there was something more innate and he could sense where fellow Koreans were?

The next morning before our flight out we went back to the restaurant (this time we told a bus driver exactly where to go) and had a meal (will post review of it.) We talked again to some people we had met the night before- including the very kind owner. All too soon we had to leave.

Vanuatu is a really great country to visit. It is beautiful and the people there are so lovely. We had an awesome time and we did some amazing things and saw some amazing things. What happened on the last night was the least expected thing though!

Ferry

As an Australian, it’s always strange to me how many Koreans can’t swim well or can’t swim at all. Many just don’t have any opportunity to learn, where as in Australia even if we don’t learn from our parents we usually learn at school.

So yes, you can be in the Korean Navy and be scared of water.

 

Korean Drama Review: Love Rain

 

The drama Love Rain just recently finished airing in Korea. This drama begins in a 1970’s setting with a group of friends, but focuses on the character of art student In-Ha, played by Jang Geun Suk.

The sets, costumes and hair were just superb for this and it was so interesting to see a Korean drama set in the not so distant past. Not only the clothing, and setting, but the timing and subtly was perfect. This is a different world from what we are used to seeing in dramas set in the present time. In-Ha is an introvert and never expresses his true feelings but in the 3 seconds it takes to first walk past Yoon-Hee (played by Yoona) on campus he falls in love. Of course as the road to true love is never smooth there are many complications: the first being how awkwardly shy the two of them are, the second being that other friends having feelings for them so they are never in the position to be truly honest.

I won’t give away too much of the storyline but some of these scenes with In-Ha and Yoon-Hee are wonderfully poignant yet heartbreaking. The style and timing of these episodes really enhances the 1970’s storyline and the sadness of what happens to the main characters with rain as the recurring theme.

Things don’t stay in the 1970’s though. The drama jumps to 2012 and introduces the children of In-Ha and Yoon-Hee, who are not related. So as you can probably guess, In-Ha and Yoon-Hee’s love was ill-fated. Yoon-Hee’s daughter Ha-Na and In-Ha’s son Joon meet randomly in Japan with no idea that their parents were in love in their youth.

The drama kicks into typical Korean drama mode now. With the somewhat ridiculous premise of Ha-Na’s phone falling into Joon’s pocket. This causes her to embark on a series of escapades to try and get it back as he refuses to stop and meet her due to his busy schedule (he is a fashion photographer). Joon is actually played by Jang Geun Suk who of course played In-Ha, Joon’s father. Ha-Na is played by Yoona who played her mother Yoon-hee. They look different though. You can recognise that they are the same actors but their characters (and clothing) are very different to their parents. I was quite impressed with Jang Geun Suk’s acting skills to go from a heartbroken and introverted young man in the 1970’s to a charming and successful but cocky heartthrob character in 2012.

Yes, of course being a Korean drama the lead male character is a bit of a jerk. And there is the usual storyline of him being a jerk to the main female character Ha-Na. I know a lot of viewers really like this type of storyline but I was happy to see it only last a few episodes. I saw some complaints online that Joon became too nice and wasn’t a jerk enough. Perhaps that comes down to what age you are? Maybe teenage girls want to see the bad boy persona all the way though but as a 28 year old I prefer to see some real tenderness and honest feelings from the lead male and not just the bad boy and good girl trope.

This type of storyline usually goes like this.

GUY: I’m such a handsome bad boy, I do whatever I want.

GIRL: I’m a sweet innocent girl and somehow our paths cross.

GUY: Girl I don’t think you are pretty, get out of my way.

GIRL: Yeah well you are a jerk and I don’t care what you think. I’ll never like you.

GUY: Oh, actually I’ve never had a girl stand up to me like that. Now I can see that you have good qualities and you are very pretty. I think I like you.

GIRL. Go away. I don’t like you… even if I am noticing how handsome you are.

GUY: I will prove how honorable and trustworthy I actually am.

GIRL: Oh, yes. Through this series of incidents I can now see that you are a good guy and now I love you too.

GUY: I will love you forever.

This is such an old storyline! Seriously, Jane Austen wrote this storyline in Pride and Prejudice that was published in 1813. Obviously it works but it can’t be relied upon for the whole plot. So I liked in Love Rain that this storyline didn’t go on for too long and the main characters admitted feelings quite early, especially compared to other dramas. So don’t worry, I’m not giving away the whole storyline.

Speaking of other dramas: this type of plot annoyed me so much in the drama Flower Boy Ramen Shop. Seriously, that guy was a dick until the very end. Who really wants a guy like that? Not only that but the trope of handsome, rich, bad boy falling for not-that-pretty, weirdo girl is overdone. The girl in Flower Boy Ramen Shop was so annoying I wanted to punch her through the screen, and yet she had two guys after her? Completely unbelievable. What I liked about Love Rain was that even though it had the usually trope of handsome, rich, bad boy, the character of Ha-Na is actually desirable and pretty and not annoying like some other female characters in dramas.That is actually a benefit of having a star like Yoona in the role. I know there can be criticism of these type of stars given roles in dramas but here I think it really worked. I believed that a worldly guy like Joon would be interested in her.

Of course the major obstacle for them is that their parents, who have been pining after each other for 30 years, meet again and want to marry. How can they be together if their parents marry?

Most of the other characters from the 1970’s episodes are in the 2012 episodes and you can see what time has done do them. Handsome youths becoming middle-aged men and years of disappointment turn a young woman into a horrible and bitter woman. Their children are also in supporting roles as well.

Love Rain runs for 20 episodes. It starts really well. So well in fact that the change to 2012 is almost a disappointment. I would have liked to stay with the 1970’s characters a bit longer. That is not to say that the 2012 setting episodes aren’t interesting. Some are really good, though the series does stagger for a few episodes towards the end. It pulls through with a satisfying ending though and on a whole I found it to be a very beautiful and moving drama.

I know the ratings weren’t that great in Korea, but it seems to be really loved by international fans. I enjoyed it a lot and definitely recommend it.

Big Bang and Weddings

wedding or big bang?Is it sad that I was actually a little bit concerned about this? It’s not like we only had one wedding, we had two, and it’s not like only the exact date is out- but weeks around the wedding dates were really busy. Of course I’d choose my wedding! But I would have been annoyed if something was scheduled at a time I couldn’t go. I’ve only been to a Big Bang mini concert and never a Big Show.

I asked my friends on Facebook this question and some said “Big Bang without a doubt.” Haha… Good thing they weren’t the ones marrying my husband…

Also, now I’m waiting to see if they will come to Australia! YG is slowly announcing cities and dates but haven’t heard anything about Australia…

Elysee Motel Busan Review

If you are traveling around Korea for more than just a few days you might want to find some cheaper accommodation. Fortunately in Korea you don’t have to compromise on safety, cleanliness or conveniences when selecting a cheaper alternative.

There are hotels and motels in Korea but they don’t always have the same meaning as in other countries. Hotels are more expensive and are more likely to have a good view and good service. Motels are pretty much the same as a hotel but minus the view and hotel level service. However, motels still are extremely clean and comfortable. In the room they always have a large TV, computer with internet access, fridge, air-con… everything you’d expect in a hotel except the price is usually about only $50 Australian or American.

The biggest problem you may have is the language barrier. If you can speak a bit of Korean (or have a Korean partner in tow) it won’t be a problem but if you have no Korean it may be more difficult to book a room. You could probably eventually do it with some hand gestures but this can be stressful especially after a lot of traveling.

However, if you are spending some time in Busan: Good news! There is a motel called Elysee Motel that has a manager that speaks English. Not only that but he will show you on a map where there are good places to go and is extremely helpful. The rooms even have some extras that not all motels have. They have large bathrooms with a spa bath AND a shower that turns into a sauna! But don’t do what my mum did and forget which way the door opens and panic trying to push the door open and thinking you are going to die in the steam. She worked it out eventually…

Also, one quirky thing is above the bed was a mural of outer-space and a green light that lit it up. Not sure why, but it was funny.

The motel is very close to attractions in Busan so is in an ideal location. Also the manager booked our tickets on the KTX from Busan to Seoul for us and got us a better deal. He also drove us to the train station for a small fee so we didn’t have to deal with the hassle of taxis- with all our luggage and there being four of us, using taxis was a bit of a drama as we always had to use two.

Unfortunately I can’t remember his name, but I drew a picture of him…

Cheap accomodation Korea English version of their website: HERE

 

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